Consult a family lawyer before you decide on divorce
Lawyer-mediator RAJAN CHETTIAR explains the benefits of consulting a lawyer specialising in Family Law, before deciding upon a divorce.
When facing a divorce, it’s common to feel troubled, stressed and confused and have a lot of questions. While the Internet has an abundance of information and friends are often willing to lend a listening ear and offer advice, it’s always best to speak to a lawyer who specialises in Family Law.
Remember, as helpful as friends can be, advice from friends or family members who’ve experienced divorce must be taken lightly. No two sets of marital problems or circumstances are the same even if they sound alike. As such, every situation needs to be handled differently.
Also, whatever you read on the Internet cannot draw a full and accurate picture of divorce laws and processes. In reality, nothing beats sound legal advice from a good family lawyer, one who understands your cultural nuances, empathises with you and can offer practical solutions.
Also, whatever you read on the Internet cannot draw a full and accurate picture of divorce laws and processes. In reality, nothing beats sound legal advice from a good family lawyer, one who understands your cultural nuances, empathises with you and can offer practical solutions.
Even if you are yet to decide whether to file for divorce, an appointment with a lawyer specialising in Family Law can help you clarify your thoughts and position. Prior to your appointment, list all your questions and doubts – no matter how silly you may think they sound. This is the only way to receive the answers you need. After the consultation you may have further questions, which your family lawyer should be willing to answer via email or by telephone. Once you’re clear about the legal and practical implications of your martial woes you’re sure to feel less stressed and more “in control” of the situation.
The length of divorce proceedings depends on your filing date, but the shortest timeframe is likely to be six months. When comparing the fees charged by different lawyers, always check the scope of services the fee covers. Costs usually depend on the seniority of the lawyer and some may charge by the hour. While it’s difficult for a lawyer to give you an exact quote, they should be able to give you a cost range to help you make your decision. Remember, cheaper options may not include certain stages of Court proceedings and trials. So always check estimates thoroughly before making your final selection.
Rajan Chettiar
Commissioner for Oaths, Mediator LLB (Honours), Barrister-at-law (Middle Temple), UK
Commissioner for Oaths, Mediator LLB (Honours), Barrister-at-law (Middle Temple), UK
